Even though you have the right to privacy on your electronic devices, once you get married, that right changes and your spouse now has the right to know what you are doing with them (similar to how you also deserve to know what said spouse is up to).
Whether they know it or not, people who are trying to hide something give off signs that they are trying to hide something. Spouses can see these signs and know what’s going on.
You might be able to bully, guilt-trip, or manipulate your way out of sticky situations, but if you are scared every time your phone shows up, hiding things, deleting things, erasing logs, etc., then you are clearly hiding something.
This can’t be proven, of course, until we find out what you’re trying to hide. Now, partners will start to look into what’s going on. If you saw that your partner was acting strangely, you might ask them about it or look into it yourself.
You’re lucky if your spouse even notices. People who aren’t worried anymore will either not notice or won’t care enough to notice the change.
We all have times when we go in the wrong direction and do things we know we shouldn’t. If it has been brought up, pay attention to it because no matter how hard you try to hide it, you will show signs that you are hiding something, which is bad for the peace, happiness, and trust in your marriage. If it has been brought up, pay attention to it, because no matter how hard you try to hide something, you will give off signs that you are hiding something.
There’s no reason to do that.
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